I’ve written about grudges before.
They are ugly, nasty, vile things that no one should hold on to.
It’s been compared to holding a hot coal in your lap…who’s that burning!?
The person you have the grudge against could probably care less…unless they are carrying one that is of equal strength against you.
Why is that an important thing to do? Don’t you have other things you could be using your time for? You may be talking to this blog right now saying, I don’t waste any time on the grudge I’m holding. HA! I beg to differ—YOU DO! You think about it–that is time. You probably talk about it to others–WASTE OF TIME. You may see that other person’s face or name and your body cringes. You might have thoughts of violence. You might just want them to trip a little or have a bad day.
Whatever the case…IT’S WASTING YOUR TIME!
Your grudge is not seriously hurting the one you have it against, but it IS SERIOUSLY hurting you. It’s clouding your mind and making holes in your heart where there could be sprouts of love and understanding. The fact that you are holding on to it like it’s something precious, is kind of sickening. Think long and hard… and pray about it. God will open your eyes to what it really is. He will turn it the color it is and allow to realize the time you have wasted on it.
Do it..right now!
Because really, truly…AIN’T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR A GRUDGE!